Better Rest: Practical Ways to Fall and Stay Asleep

Not sleeping well messes with your mood, focus, and immune system. You don’t need perfect conditions to sleep, but small changes can make a big difference. Below are clear, practical steps you can try tonight.

Set a consistent sleep window. Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, even on weekends. Your body’s clock learns patterns, and consistency improves sleep depth. If you must nap, keep it short—20 to 30 minutes—and avoid late afternoon naps that blur nighttime sleep.

Control light and temperature. Darkness signals your brain to release melatonin. Use blackout curtains, turn off bright electronics an hour before bed, and dim household lights. Keep the bedroom cool—about 60–67°F (15–19°C) works for most people. A slightly cool room helps your body drop core temperature, which promotes sleep.

Watch caffeine, alcohol, and heavy meals. Cut caffeine at least six hours before bed; it lingers. Alcohol might help you fall asleep but fragments the second half of the night. Large meals close to bedtime can cause discomfort and reflux—eat lighter meals if you’re hungry late.

Build a short pre-bed routine. Thirty minutes of calm activity signals sleep time: read a paper book, stretch gently, or practice paced breathing. Try the 4-4-8 breathing: inhale 4 seconds, hold 4, exhale 8. It slows your heart rate and quiets the mind.

Use sleep aids carefully. Over-the-counter options include melatonin and short-term antihistamines. Melatonin helps reset the clock; typical doses range from 0.3 to 5 mg taken 30–60 minutes before bed. Antihistamines like diphenhydramine can cause next-day grogginess and are not recommended for daily use. Prescription meds such as zolpidem or trazodone may help short-term but talk to your doctor about risks, especially if you take other medications.

Try safe supplements and practices. Magnesium, L-theanine, and valerian help some people sleep better, but effects vary. Start with low doses and pick one change at a time so you know what works. If you’re on blood thinners, antidepressants, or heart meds, check interactions with a pharmacist or doctor.

Address habits that keep you awake. If your mind races, jot down worries or a short to-do list before bed. Reserve the bedroom for sleep and sex; avoid work and stressful talks there. If you can’t sleep after 20 minutes, get up and do a quiet activity until you feel sleepy again—lying awake increases anxiety and makes sleep harder.

When to seek help

Talk to a doctor if sleep problems last more than a month or you feel excessively sleepy during the day. Ask about sleep apnea, restless legs, mood disorders, and medication side effects. A sleep study or medication review can point to fixes that simple habits won’t solve.

Quick checklist tonight

Set lights low 60 minutes before bed, stop caffeine by mid-afternoon, cool your room, try a short breathing routine, and limit screen time. Small consistent steps often add up faster than dramatic changes. You can track progress in a sleep diary daily.